What you should know ☺   
Name / AliasArden / GomAgeAdult
PronounsThey / themTimezoneGMT (Greenwich Mean Time)

\About me 
- If you think you know me IRL, message me privately before interacting with me online /gen

- My name's Arden! a nickname I have is Gom (hence the URL), friends of mine call me R;I Don't state my exact age online, but I am an adult;I am Neurodivergent, so I do struggle with tones and such, using tone tags (Google what tone tags are if unsure, or just ask! I can send you some I use and what those stand for!)






✕ do not interact if :

  • If you're, racist/ homophobic/transphobic/ableist or anything else discriminatory against minorities;

  • if you break anyone's boundaries (on purpose)

  • if you're a minor (unless we're either talking in a public space or we have chatted within groups before)


✕ Before you follow:

  • I often swear and won't censor myself in that aspect;

  • I may say something with the best intentions (in private or publicly) and be misinformed, just politely correct me, and I'll do my best to correct my error(s);

  • I tend to think that if you're taking a bit to respond that you suddenly hate / dislike me, so let me know when you're busy, so I know that it isn't the case (obviously this isn't always possible, and I know that)







My Boundaries
> Whilst chatting with me, use tone tags (if you don't know how to use them, just ask /gen);
> No Mention of self harm, suicide or calories when in conversation, If unsure, just ask before bringing a subject up / use spoiler mechanic if available;
Refrain (if you can) from using random punctuation in conversations, makes me anxious due to past situations I've been put in;
"where have I seen your user before?"
> I tend to be quite active on Tumblr, reblogging things such as; important goings-on; my interests and current hyperfixations.
> I'm often on Bluesky & Tumblr, liking posts and am active in a few discord servers (DAPGHS, The Starnival, the sandbox & Beanscreens bean scene.)